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Hi there, I’m Andrea. If you’ve taken a moment to read my bio, you’ll see that I wear many hats—just like any other mom, wife, entrepreneur, and ministry wife. For the past 24 years, I’ve been living abroad, and for nearly 20 of those years, I’ve served alongside my husband in ministry.

As I get older, I’ve noticed how life shapes us. The highs, the lows, the joys, the heartbreaks—they all mold our character and build resilience. Looking back, I see how much God has changed me. If you met me 20 years ago, or even 2 years ago, you’d be meeting a different version of myself. While I certainly don’t love every challenge life throws my way—suffering, illness, even betrayal—I can’t help but see how God has used those moments to transform me. I’m still learning, still growing.

One of the hardest lessons I’ve had to learn is how to set boundaries in love. The “old me” would stretch and bend to please everyone, but I’ve realized the importance of drawing lines—saying “no” when necessary and doing it with love. It’s not easy, and I know it’s something many of us wrestle with in ministry.

As I move further into this stage of life, I can’t help but notice how much the world has changed. Some of it feels overwhelming, but there’s one thing I appreciate about this younger generation—they’re bringing up important conversations that, for too long, have been silenced in Christian circles. Real struggles like depression, anxiety, and even toxic church environments are being brought to light. And let me tell you, they’ve mastered the art of setting boundaries—sometimes a little too well!

I’m creating this space to share my own experiences—the joys and the hardships of ministry life. It’s time to step out of the comfort zone, and to be bold. Time is short, and Jesus is coming. We don’t have time to sugarcoat the realities of ministry.

I pray this space will be a blessing to you, dear women in ministry, especially if you feel alone. You are not. We’re in this together.

"But they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint." — Isaiah 40:31 (ESV)

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